With the release of my ebook, “12 Months of Dates to Grow a Meaningful Marriage,” I’ve been talking a lot about dating this month. When you’re planning a date night, do you know what elements take it from blah to great? Here’s 5 elements you’ll want to remember!
1 — Adventure
Whether your first date or you’ve been married 15 years, a great date night always includes the adventure of something exciting or new! Find local events or concerts (bonus points if they’re free!), take a class together, do something out of your comfort zone!
2 — Emotional Connection
A great date night is about being emotionally connected, and not just physically present! Ask your significant other nostalgic questions, inquire about their dreams for the future, and talk about what you can be doing better as a couple to grow your relationship.
3 — Food
Some of the best memories are made around the table — and that’s why food is an element of a great date night! Try a new restaurant or recipe, or enjoy some of your classic favorites together.
4 — Physical Connection
Physical connection is a powerful element of a great date night which says without words, “I’m here for you. you’re my person.” Hold hands, sit next to each other on the couch or restaurant booth, give a massage or initiate an extra-long hug.
5 — No Pressure
The best date nights are those free from the pressure of expectation — leave room for spontaneity, go with the flow, and have fun! Remember that a date night is about deepening your own unique relationship — not about how it will look on your socials, or about copying someone else’s dating experience.
Want more date night ideas? Grab your copy of my ebook, “12 Months of Dates to Grow a Meaningful Marriage”! It includes 12 months of dates with various price brackets that are already planned out for you…something that will save you time, energy, and will add the spark of adventure to your relationship! Make your marriage top priority this year and invest in the things that matter.
With Love from Victoria 